Falling Out of Love, An Impossible Feat

This morning, while listening to Mix.fm, my attention was grabbed, hard, by a phone call from a lady, talking about her and her husband, that even though he is not romantic and that they fight a lot, she still loves him for who he really is.  And, for the simple fact that he is a simple and considerate man.  Above all, she thinks she has found her soulmate that no matter what happened, she will still love him, no matter how much arguments and fights they went into, she would still be lost without him. "Awww, so sweet", I said to myself.

Then the DJ, Sarimah asked, "Is it possible that someday you might fall out of love, for any reason at all, be it fights, disagreement or just anything, serious or less?".  The lady on the phone answered, confidently, "No, you will never be falling out of love. There's no such thing.  If that happens, it simply means you haven't found your soulmate yet.  Whatever you feel that made you think you fell in love at the beginning, it could be anything or something, but then in the end, you fell out of it, it is not true love, and he is not your real soulmate."

This really got me thinking, and actually nodding alone in my car, how true it actually is.  There is no such thing as falling out of love.  If it is love, a real and true love, your feelings will never lessen, not even a bit.  Even if you have to someday lose that person, the love will remain inside you, no matter what.  But, if it happens otherwise, that at anytime you feel you are falling out of love, it simply means, you have not felt the real love yet.  Love is everything but lessen.  It is forgiving, it is caring, it is everything good, unselfish, but never ever...bound to lose at any time at all.  It is forever.  

In love with someone is something priceless.  Being loved back is a thousandth times much more priceless than that.  That's why, no amount of imperfection, disagreement or hatred will be able to dismantle it from your heart.  Unluckily, not everyone will have the experience, to love, and be loved. Some are blessed enough to feel that and have and grabbed the chance to spend the rest of their lives with the person they loved.  Some are unlucky to never found or felt true love in its truest sense.  Some even unluckier to feel the love, but too late, the person is not available, you are not available, time is not right, or even circumstances or the person simply doesn't feel the same towards you.  

Agreeing to this completely, I don't actually know where I stand.  Well, most probably I would be the latter group, the unlucky ones, the falling out ones.  I know, however, that falling in love, really in love, would have me putting my life on the line for the one I am in love with.  I don't know what the future holds for me, but I know, for sure, I fell in love once and still, with the One, and I am lucky enough to be loved back, much more deeper.  Divine love felt so much more divine than anything else.

So, today I would definitely say to all, there is NO such thing as falling out of love, only that you have never been in love at the first place.